My signature 8-Week program for couples in the aftermath of infidelity
You are stuck in the aftermath of infidelity but want to heal your relationship and rebuild trust with your partner.
You're tired of feeling stuck in the process of healing and need a proven plan to rebuild a happy and thriving relationship.
You feel lost and you've tried everything to get off the emotional roller coaster
You've read book after book and gone to session after session only to recognize that what you really need to save your relationship is a clear roadmap to healing and trust building.
I'm a Miami based licensed marriage & family therapist specializing in affair recovery with a decade of experience (and thousands of hours) helping couples heal their relationships after infidelity.
I know how life shattering infidelity is and what it does to your relationship. The trauma and post trauma, the feelings all over the place, the inability to trust anymore... and most of all the dark moments of hopelessness that you will be able to get over this.
I'm here to tell you that you absolutely CAN heal after infidelity. No, it's not time that will heal you, it's what you do during this time. Both of you.
I have a roadmap to healing after infidelity and I'll be honored to guide you through it.
because I want you to finally have the opportunity to work with an expert who knows exactly how to help you heal and regain trust.
"The course gave us a way to save our marriage by facing not only the infidelity but the root cause of it while still being able to face and own the responsibility of the infidelity."
Shannon & Rob
This module encompasses everything you need to know about infidelity to best navigate the program with utmost success including:
- The fundamentals like what constitutes infidelity
- What your potential to heal is and how to increase it
- Support system
- Talking to kids
- And more
This will be your first module after the welcome video.
First, you’re going to rebalance the crisis by carefully following these steps:
You’re going to end the affair in the most appropriate fashion. I’ll walk both of you through a detailed plan to help you end and establish boundaries with the affair partner. Then you’re going to create a transparency plan to start regaining basic trust. You will also craft a compelling remorse expression that your partner can accept - I’ll guide you step by step on how remorse accepted by hurt partners looks like and show you exactly how you can craft your own.
Next, you’re going to reattach by learning and implementing new ways to communicate and reconnect with your partner.
You will utilize all the tools to better communicate by becoming better listeners and speakers to your partners, all with the help of research based tools and exercises I teach you step by step.
Then you will formulate the correct questions to ask your partner to gain insight and understand the meaning and the motives of the betrayal.
I will teach you exactly which questions you want to avoid and which ones to ask.
Then I’ll help you plan and ask your questions while helping your partner answer with honesty and empathy.
This is also when you will learn how to handle the trauma, intrusive thoughts, lows, and other symptoms you may be experiencing.
Lastly, you’re going to restart a new and improved relationship with your partner. This is when you get to close the infidelity chapter and open a new one.
I’ll walk you through creating new rules for your relationship by crafting a relationship agreement that relates to your new and improved relationship boundaries.
You will also get my guidance on how to regain intimacy that feels healthy and honors your boundaries.
Lastly, I will help you include a plan to prevent relapse so you can enjoy your new free of infidelity chapter of your relationship.
The Thought Technique That Stops Intrusive Thoughts & Feelings in Their Tracks: This mini course will help partners experiencing repetitive, intrusive, and self-defeating thoughts as well as flashbacks to quickly overcome and reduce the intensity and quantity of the horrible thoughts, flashbacks, and dreams.
Take a Break Technique: a relaxation and Self Soothing Technique for Couples to Enhance Communication Skills. This mini course will help you self soothe when you're flooded in intense conversations.
The Recourse Library: A fully loaded resource library with recommended books, videos, articles, websites, and other resources that I personally found most valuable for my clients and students. This is a select variety that I hand-picked for you so you don’t have to deal with the sea of irrelevant information out there.
All of that on TOP of the 8 week roadmap to healing program.